- agape, godlike power, turn non being into being. you have [[Kairos]] since your own course is also being transformed - through other peoples agapic love we started to internalize the perceptions people have of us. we gain the ability to self reflect through the reflection of other people - having a child is most agapic and non ego centric act - agape is sacrificial - we afford ourselves for other people to grow - agape is giving before people earn it - you are not the source of agapic love as it is transjective