## Being attracted to opposite sex who act same sex https://www.reddit.com/r/Jung/s/BPJmlE1Q9D asking if on birth control is interesting I think what it means about your animus (and the men you seek) are that these are qualities that you want to incorporate into yourself. Nothing wrong with your attraction, or your friends attraction, at all. The animus was things you rejected in yourself. Starting with that fact, that you physically didn’t look male, then being more complex over time as you interacted with males the type of attributes you didn’t see in yourself, in them. You mentioned you had some masculine traits, it’s like then that the men you’re attracted to now, are embodying what you currently don’t see yourself having. The point of anima/us integration is identifying what you’re so attracted, and attached to in your contrasexual, and accepting them in yourself. Then these attributes are less special and unique for you, and you can begin to see the man you love for who he is, rather than these particular attributes. You will get peace from it!