- As long as you stay genuine with what you say, it shows little investment and high [[Vulnerability]]
- Say what comes to mind, without filter or shame
- By being blatant with our feelings, we show how we are okay with rejection due to our personal comfort
- Hiding feelings shows that we are insecure about how we think
- this is how quick and meaningful connection forms - one or both parties both know who they are and what they want, and there is little noise needed to filter through
- It's like following the [[Iterative Learning]]
- When you receive a compliment, return your actual thoughts
- Don't expect anything
- People appreciate others who genuinely value them without expecting anything in return - [[Friendships have no expectations]]
## Three Fundamentals
- Lifestyle (living according to our values)
- Not living the life we want to shows [[Attachment|Neediness]]
- Becoming comfortable with our intentions (courage and action)
- Not acting on our desires shows we aren't invested in ourselves
- Overcoming women-related fear and anxiety
- Honest action means doing what we want to
- Being a pussy and not asking a girl out is dishonest action since it goes against what we want to do
- All stems from inferiority
- You're more invested in not being rejected rather than inner desires
- Correlates with meeting and attracting women
- Have opinions, express them
- Intricately express why you like/dislike things, and your personal experiences
- Also helps with continuing conversation
- Reading can help us become more knowledgeable and relatable to other's ideas
- Expressing our sexuality freely (communication)
- Sense of humor, connecting with people, being engaging, charismatic, sexually expressive
- Correlates with efficiency of finding compatible women
- Not freely expressing ourselves shows more investment in other people than ourselves
- A lack of honest communication makes us believe that finding the right one is rare