- As long as you stay genuine with what you say, it shows little investment and high [[Vulnerability]] - Say what comes to mind, without filter or shame - By being blatant with our feelings, we show how we are okay with rejection due to our personal comfort - Hiding feelings shows that we are insecure about how we think - this is how quick and meaningful connection forms - one or both parties both know who they are and what they want, and there is little noise needed to filter through - It's like following the [[Iterative Learning]] - When you receive a compliment, return your actual thoughts - Don't expect anything - People appreciate others who genuinely value them without expecting anything in return - [[Friendships have no expectations]] ## Three Fundamentals - Lifestyle (living according to our values) - Not living the life we want to shows [[Attachment|Neediness]] - Becoming comfortable with our intentions (courage and action) - Not acting on our desires shows we aren't invested in ourselves - Overcoming women-related fear and anxiety - Honest action means doing what we want to - Being a pussy and not asking a girl out is dishonest action since it goes against what we want to do - All stems from inferiority - You're more invested in not being rejected rather than inner desires - Correlates with meeting and attracting women - Have opinions, express them - Intricately express why you like/dislike things, and your personal experiences - Also helps with continuing conversation - Reading can help us become more knowledgeable and relatable to other's ideas - Expressing our sexuality freely (communication) - Sense of humor, connecting with people, being engaging, charismatic, sexually expressive - Correlates with efficiency of finding compatible women - Not freely expressing ourselves shows more investment in other people than ourselves - A lack of honest communication makes us believe that finding the right one is rare