- we love courses (school, movies), even though life is nowhere near as similar - Open future, one that we have control over - having sex with someone is an extremely deep form of knowing - empathize, knowing someone, evolving with things, knowing the turning point aka climax - after, we ask ourselves, how is this relationship going? are we on the right track? - trespassing and sin is going off course - prophecies and prophets help wake you up to get back onto course