The right person won't find you clingy let people be themselves so when you do see eachother it's more refreshing almost like they dont have anything better to do than text don't deprive people of alone time clingy psycho manipulative gf dropped, felt much better. being affectionate is not considered being clingy so then you can just be kind during interactions but not initiate? that doesn't seem like a mutual conection though [https://www.reddit.com/r/infj/comments/mldyr4/dont_be_afraid_to_be_clingy/](https://www.reddit.com/r/infj/comments/mldyr4/dont_be_afraid_to_be_clingy/)