When we have no objective to help make a decision, we may instead use feelings, even if they may be completely off: ![[Thinking, Fast and Slow#^ak4rm2]] maybe this is how [[Idealizing people]] and and infatuation happens, on why love bombing is effective? if you're deprived of feeling good, then it's the only baseline you have for how someone is, and it's very easy to propagate it to other areas and dimensions that you do not have much information about.