- Everyone needs to be proactive, be part of building relationships - Was consistently reaching out to people to connect - Need to have a weekly commitment - Small bricks and strands that shape the whole - Get people to know each other, how do you set that up - Smaller groups - Questions - fill out application for a high quality community - accept 90%, just don't accept ones with no effort - if you can't fill a form you're not going to reach out - EMPHASIS IS MEETING PEOPLE - Try to get to share yourself and your ideal audience