People who live in complacent positions are honestly worse off because they dont have a reason to get out. This can cause [[Procrastination]] due to a feeling of incompetence. The solution to this is to fear complacency more than [[Failure]] But sometimes it's difficult to know when you're being grateful and appreciative of your current situation versus being unhealthily complacent. being average and unremarkable is always possible and it is possible to find satisfaction in that just by being mindful and appreciative of life as a whole I don't think it's about being in significant I think it's just not living a life of your full potential. if you adopt a stoic or Eastern philosophy then there is no need for fame or other external metrics, just a need for living a virtuous life and following the path of wisdom Opposite is [[Ambition]] ## Examples [[Sales]], get them to make the transformation or not [[Polarization]], directly test romantic compatibility or rejection The personal growth example above. You need to be in one of the extremes to be motivated to grow.