- date environments are very important - who feels flirty at 7am in starbucks - Don't do lunch dates, try to aim for night-time after the day's chores - Start around 6-9 PM - No movie or dinner dates - A stream of various activities - Active, particpatory, allow for touching and flirting - Dancing, walks, grabbing a drink, museum exhibits??? - ex) Coffee -> Ice cream -> Park -> Shopping - ex) Window shopping -> Comedy show -> Quick dinner -> Local park - Always be leading with the next idea - Ensure conversations get deeper and personal - Start off with playful banter -> Get deeper and deeper - Just pay unless she stops you - show things after not during the date, so there is a chance for communication after as well