> "One of the most unexpected gifts you can receive is an early loss. > Missing out on a job you really wanted. > Trying a business idea that fails. > Suffering a heartbreak. > An early setback can become the catalyst for a wonderful next chapter—if you channel the emotion effectively. > Disappointment is a hot burning fuel. Let it light your fire to become better." More learning opportunity than if something was just always going right. the bottleneck is how much failure you can endure before it becomes destructive rather than constructive