For more parasocial relationships, consider [[Connecting with your audience]] ## Methodology - Start off with playful banter -> Get deeper and deeper - The main topics of conversation should be you and them - Be willing to share any part of yourself to anyone at any time and on any level. You have nothing to lose by sharing yourself - try to get in a deep conversation with them - make them trust me, have a meaningful conversation to see her values to see if wanting to get with her really is realistic - make sure it is aligned with my personal truths and values - Uncovering identity creates connection - Relate to feelings, not facts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - be self-aware and share, listen for what she has to say - Be unique from the rest of the crowd - talk about what makes you special, and ask about what makes them special - fuck small talk, it's time to learn and grow from conversations