## From Reddit First, men and women are different. Women value love, connection, attention, relationship (intimate and platonic) MUCH higher than men do. That's how they are wired. Men value challenges, growth, freedom, purpose, direction. That's how they are wired. Let that settle in. To women, a relationship is a MUCH higher priority than to men. To men, purpose is a much higher priority than a relationship. (in general) A guy should be focused on where he is going, not who is joining him for the ride. Plus, when guys bring this stuff up it can be conveyed as uncertain, unsure of themselves, insecure. A woman who knows she is with an awesome guy will bring it up, lest she lose him. A guy who is with an awesome women will still be focused on his purpose. ## My Thoughts Technically? But I'd like to think I also highly prioritize relationships as well since they will be literally with you for the rest of your life xd