Theoretically, dating is when you're still figuring out when you think there's a potentila future with them, while when you make it official you think there is alignment? - Both people need to be on the same page - [[Define the relationship]] - You mainly need to know if your goals and values align and if you like how you feel around the - 1-1.5 months - after 6 months + still unable to DTR shows either some commitment issues or lack of interest - if a guy doesn’t make it official within 1-3 months then they never planned to and probably never will Being an introspective person helps, as after each interaction or date you can take some time to see how they make you feel, what kind of person you are