- humor is the same as uncertainty in the sense that they both clash different perspectives - with humor you resolve with a trick - Stick with humor you are comfortable with - Humor is creative and requires the connection of two unrelated things - Enhances attraction but does not create it - Don't overindulge in self-deprecation ## Facilitation - From boring to hilarious - Choose 1-3 per writing session to narrow constraints - as you write, intuitively add jokes - ask chatgpt to review - Remember a memory where you're comedic and braindead - Repetiton when writing - ex) emphasizing the state he's in ## Types - Misdirection - Having an unexpected twist of intention with your messsage - ex) `“You know that look women get when they want to have sex? … Yeah, me neither.”` - Exaggeration - Blow things out of proportion - ex) `“I’ve seen more attractive things in the bottom of an airport urinal.”` - Specificity and oddity of details - Teasing and Sarcasm - Must be at appropriate times - Derogatory yet playful insults - Sarcasm is a complete goldmine or super ineffective - Swearing - Don't overuse swears - Wordplay/Puns - Pursuing the wrong intention of a statement - Intellectual - Roleplaying/Games - Marriage/divorce rp??? - Can just be spontaneous as long as they get the message - ex) “You keep the kids, I’m moving to Europe.” “By the way, your music sucks, and I never liked your casseroles either.”