- humor is the same as uncertainty in the sense that they both clash different perspectives
- with humor you resolve with a trick
- Stick with humor you are comfortable with
- Humor is creative and requires the connection of two unrelated things
- Enhances attraction but does not create it
- Don't overindulge in self-deprecation
## Facilitation
- From boring to hilarious
- Choose 1-3 per writing session to narrow constraints
- as you write, intuitively add jokes
- ask chatgpt to review
- Remember a memory where you're comedic and braindead
- Repetiton when writing
- ex) emphasizing the state he's in
## Types
- Misdirection
- Having an unexpected twist of intention with your messsage
- ex) `“You know that look women get when they want to have sex? … Yeah, me neither.”`
- Exaggeration
- Blow things out of proportion
- ex) `“I’ve seen more attractive things in the bottom of an airport urinal.”`
- Specificity and oddity of details
- Teasing and Sarcasm
- Must be at appropriate times
- Derogatory yet playful insults
- Sarcasm is a complete goldmine or super ineffective
- Swearing
- Don't overuse swears
- Wordplay/Puns
- Pursuing the wrong intention of a statement
- Intellectual
- Roleplaying/Games
- Marriage/divorce rp???
- Can just be spontaneous as long as they get the message
- ex) “You keep the kids, I’m moving to Europe.” “By the way, your music sucks, and I never liked your casseroles either.”