can be with and be vulnerable, comfortable trouble maintaining casual friendships, prefer deeper connections https://reddit.com/r/infj/s/5UPJFGrLqb ## Sudden > I decide within a split second about whether I want to be friends with someone when I meet them and once I decide to it's usually inner circle level of friendship for me. I'm learning to cool my jets on this though! It's the total opposite for romantic relationships for me though. I'll decide almost immediately whether I like the person or not, but I like to take my time to get to know them slowly. Part of it is my own anxiety, but part of it is that I like slowly unraveling things I usually already know about them hehe. And I totally agree about the pre-existing connections; they're so rare, but so magical <3