- Know a bit too much about people - Desire meaningful and fulfilling relationships - Like similar-minded people, and are devoted - Easily opens up to people with sincerity and emotion - Able to deeply understand people and read social situations - Strong sense of empathy to the point where other's feelings can be personally experienced - Ignore shallow talk, dive right into vulnerability - Look for morality and maturity ### Compatibilities - Most compatible with ENTJ/ENFJ - Passionate people with depth and quirkiness ### Conversations - hopes dreams futures passions ## Types - [[INFJ Relationships]] - [[INFJ Parenting]] - [[INFJ Friendships]] ### Outside Interpretations - Eager to find ways to bond, or can't stand how open you are - Viewed as a romantic interest or therapist ## Benefits - Comes up with creatively and consistently demonstrate affection - Denotes shallow relationships - Empathy can quickly form intimate relationships - https://www.reddit.com/r/infj/comments/10qeudf/does_anyone_else_find_it_easy_for_people_to/ - Expands people horizons - Shows a side that they usually don't show to other people, feel heard for once due to compassion - Then INFJs feel rewarded from people being vulnerable - But people may end up scared so they push back, but then INFJs approach them in a way that will make them feel comfortable ## Downfalls - Good at finding about people, but suck at socializing - Continually thinks about criticism despite time being passed/way more praise - Struggle to find other people with a similar level of complex wavelength - Picky and have high expectations - Are unwilling to accept unattractive flaws - Seek authentic people - Try to solve all injustices - Need to know when some things are not worth fighting for - Unwilling to make sacrifices that go against their beliefs for other people - Unwilling to put the relationship in jeopardy by acknowledging problems - Deprivation of their needed care and respect can lead to jealousy for other people - Can shower others with too much affection and care - Expectations on receiving affection in return - It's best to lower expectations and not see themselves as the priority