don't judge face on their qualities, judge on how you are together ## Post-date eight Promotes satisficer mindset as it's not about ideal but about if they are a net positive in your life: - What side of me did they bring out? - How did my body feel during the date? Stiff, relaxed, or something in between? - Do I feel more energized or de-energized than I did before the date? - Is there something about them I’m curious about? - Did they make me laugh? - Did I feel heard? - Did I feel attractive in their presence? - Did I feel captivated, bored, or something in between?