--- ## Highlights we tend to project our dreams and our potential onto our partner.This is something that most INFJs aren't aware of. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01gyrd7z6a1zm7vnp1355vc430)) I put all of this energy, all of this potential that I could, you know, put into myself.I put that onto them and that's what came out of it. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01gyrd8ge5j2g1hd8w7rcz7xjj)) I was, you know, just looking out for what they could be and not for who they are at thatmoment and that this is not a healthy situation.I started putting that energy onto myself and that's when I startedtapping into my INFJ epic life when I started tapping out of thenorm default life that I thought I had to live. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01gyrd8rvxb0kc556fj2wxa2qq))