Countless intrusions have infiltrated my day's routine and pleasures:
- My soothing morning shower was stained with the smell of cat poop on the floor
- My reading habit on the train was infiltrated by obnoxious children's songs loudly playing beside me
- My reflective walk to work turned into a tiring, overworked sprint to arrive on time for a meeting
- My after-work nap and deep work time were replaced by a mindless 2-hour binge on gaming streams and videos
Tiny events continued chipping away at my energy and happiness.
And now, here I am, trying to write something meaningful and reflective when I'm in a headspace feeling anything but the above.
But as Marcus Aurelius says in Meditations,
> Choose not to be harmed – and you won't feel harmed. Don't feel harmed – and you haven't been.
And Maxwell Maltz from Psycho-Cybernetics puts,
> You act, and feel, not according to what things are really like, but according to the image your mind holds of what they are like.
Why am I piling so much mental friction onto myself?
In each scenario, I had a choice on how to react to the situation.
And my choice was to bathe in frustration.
What if… I was to simply be mindful instead?
Instead of the eventual self-sabotage I was committing, what if I didn't indulge in any negative emotions?
To not taint my judgment and mind, allowing me to respond in the most virtuous way possible?
And just like that…
I didn't have a bad day today.
Perspectives are powerful.