when we are asked who we are, we talk about accomplishments rather than our true selves self discovery is a never ending journey be quieter to find yourself, similar to healthygamerGG's advice The distinction can be made as follows: ![[After Socrates Episode 11 - Proper Proportions & the Right Mode Dr. John Vervaeke#^j0mhda]] - Having means we still need to achieve a future outcome, which requires us to exploit the world for our gain, but when operating in the being mode, we already are whole, and can start working from a place of a [[Growth Mindset]] to find our purpose and natural role in the world