## Characteristics - ![[Transcend#^j470f8]] - Also linked with traits of [[Freedom|Autonomy]] - [[B-love]] - Unconditional positive regard as a compelling drive through [[Agape]] to let others discover their self-image - [[Self-actualization in relationships]] - Taking them for granted prevents them from growing. ## Strategies - [[Transcend#^pc2vj1]] - Anticipation for prepared awareness - Suppression to wait until a better time - Humor for coping - Sublimation for better outlets - Altruism to give people what you would want - Healthy sense of self - Self-examination [[Transcend#^vjo2wl]] - **I give myself permission to enjoy myself, even if it doesn’t necessarily help others.** - People will not have a healthy sense of self if their main objective is [[Manipulation]]. Someone who is secure will prioritize their well-being, which also happens to be part of yours. - [[compassion]]