- sensibility transcendence - bidirectional insight - both agent and arena change - [[Transframing]] - co-trandsendence, can be because she is opening up what the other person can be - mother in law opens up what sister in law can be - The power of a meaningful connection in a [[Relationships]] - need to find a way to adopt another worldview like [[Overcoming self-deception]] - this is why speaking to people of diverse backgrounds is so fulfilling and eye-opening - they have completely different lives than you and come to conclusions and insights you might not have had a chance of doing yourself. - Hence why [[Socratic dialogue]] is powerful