if you mix meaning for the event if you use them together, you will be confused - So, being in [[Love]] then means you can't have that control and posession, we just have to coidentify? in which we are still our own agent? in the arena of the events that comprise of love? Meditations (event) is not about creating beliefs (meaning), but to practice spiritual experience and co-identification This is a problem in western society because power and fame fuse from the event with the meaning, giving us [[Modal confusion]], learn to be happy even in a palace We can practice this through objective seeing: - objective seeing, see sex as it is, friction and fluid, that is an event, but we have so much meaning - kiss your son good night knowing that they could be dead tomorrow - romantic comedies teach us that the narrative meaning is aligned with the way the world is unfolding. there is difficult bit they will help them get together - you can be fully in love with a woman but a truck does not care