what you are avoiding is what you should be doing
journal and be aware of this, reflect after you do to build proof. emotional, intellectual. slowly you learn to shortcut this resistance.
awareness. like all things, acceptance is key so you get into a state of growth.
this is the key to the YouTube Videos
it's self improvement so just focus on one problem
try to use space metaphor
This is what I use [[Thoughts]] notes for to journal and reflect, then [[Brainstorms]] for trying to problem solve.